I want to tell you what I was actually chasing.
Not the money. Not the valuation. Not the deal.
I wanted to breathe again. I wanted to sit at the dinner table and actually be there, not just physically present while my mind was back in the kitchen running through tomorrow's prep list. I wanted to be able to say no to things without the fear of what would happen if I did. I wanted to feel like the years of work had meant something. That they were worth something.
That's what an exit is really about.
Not a transaction. A reclamation.
The problem is that most of us wait until we are completely spent before we start thinking about it. By then the business is running on fumes, the books are a mess, the lease is almost up, and the options have narrowed to almost nothing.
This is not a plan for when you are ready to sell. It is a direction you point your business in from now- so that when you are ready, whether that is in two years or five, the business is ready too. And if you have not started yet, the second best time is right now.
Here is what an actual exit plan contains.
A target date.
Not a precise day. A rough timeframe. Two years. Four years. Enough runway to actually prepare.
Most operators have no date at all. They say they want to sell someday, which means they are building toward nothing in particular. A date gives everything else direction.
A target number.
What do you actually need to walk away with?
Not what you hope the business is worth. What you need. After tax, after debts, after costs of sale. The number that lets you take the next step without financial pressure.
Work backwards from that number. It tells you what the business needs to be worth, which tells you what profit it needs to generate, which tells you what you need to fix.
An honest assessment of where you stand.
Where are you right now against the five areas from Issue 004? Clean books. Owner independence. Lease clarity. Staff stability. Revenue consistency.
Be honest. Most operators score poorly on at least three. That is not a reason to give up. It is a list of things to fix with enough time to fix them properly.
A twelve month action list.
Based on your sellability score, what are the specific things to address in the next year?
Get the books clean. Document the systems. Talk to a lawyer about the lease. Start stepping back from daily operations so the business learns to run without you.
One thing at a time. In order of importance. With a realistic timeline.
A sense of what walking away actually looks like.
Cash at settlement. A staged handover. Passing it to a staff member. Closing on your own terms rather than under pressure.
You do not need to decide this now. But thinking about it early means you are not making these decisions when you are exhausted and just want it over.
Here is what most operators never hear.
The business you will be able to walk away from in three years is not the business you have today. It is the business you deliberately build between now and then.
Every system you document. Every process you hand off. Every month of clean financials. Every step you take away from being the person the business cannot function without.
All of it compounds. All of it adds up. All of it is the difference between having options and having none.
You have already read eight editions of this newsletter. You know what makes a business fragile. You know how brokers work. You know what the numbers actually mean and what your lease might be hiding. You know what the 3am feeling is telling you and where it leads if nothing changes.
The question now is what you do with that.
Gratitude and relief. Breathing again. The leverage to say no and get paid what the work was actually worth. Being present at the dinner table. The freedom that felt so far away for so long finally becoming real.
That is what a good exit gives you.
It does not happen by accident. It does not happen by waiting until you cannot wait any longer. It happens because you decided to build toward it, deliberately, while you still had time.
If you are ready to start doing that properly, I want to help.
I said I was building something to help with this. It’s done.
The Self Running Audit. Fifteen honest question. Ten minutes. A real score across the things that actually decide whether your business is sellable, not the things that feel like they should matter.
Take it here: The Self Running Audit
You’ll get your score straight away, plus a free Blueprint on what to fix first.
If it turns up more than you expected, that’s the point. Most operators score worse than they think. Now you know exactly where to start.
I’m also building a deeper version of this, with a full plan and more support behind it, for operators who want to go further. If that’s you, reply READY and I’ll make sure you’re the first to know when it’s ready.
That is the first eight editions of The Cynical Operator.
If any of this has been useful, the best thing you can do is forward it to one person in hospitality who needs to read it.
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